There are so many resources

There are resources everywhere, but let’s face it, there is either a waiting list, you have to file various papers you may not have, you can’t get in contact with the right people in time, and so many resources are fake, and in reality, we don’t know where the donations are going for all these charities we see around. And when we need help, we need help NOW. In your in a desperate situation waiting is just not an option. There is talk about having a trusted adult for minors or speaking to a counselor or minister about how to cope and handle the situation, some may recommend books or family intervention. Let’s be real here, no one actually lends a hand to desperate people, because people that are not in desperate situations DO NOT understand how urgent and dangerous domestic violence are, even if they are the perpetrators.

You will hear things such as:

  • you need help

  • i never said that, you're a liar

  • you're the problem

  • you disappoint me

  • your disgusting

  • your toxic

  • no one wants to be around you

  • no one will ever love you

  • your selfish, disrespectful, and stupid

  • you're an unfit parent

  • you don’t know the difference between what’s real and what’s not

Inspiration on Instagram:

  • @famimind_

  • @understandingthenarc

  • @whyshestayedpodcast

  • @gracestuart26

  • @rebeccazung

  • @changefamilycourt

  • @howtoloveabatteredwoman

  • @covert_narcisisst_info

  • @motherwoundproject

  • @mentalhealnesss

  • @narc_vs_normal

  • @healingmyheart101

  • @lesliebooks

  • @josh_ffw

  • @hopefortheday

  • @thekidswelost

  • @twloha

  • copenotes

This is the time when you must know yourself enough to teach yourself to be safe in your own skin, finding a way to know in your own head and body you yourself are going to be okay. At some points, no one can motivate you, but you.

If you have additional RECOMMENDATIONS for resources, send them to us and we will take a look at them to add to our resource page.