It has become a highly common topic for women to talk negatively about men. If someone talked so negatively about you, wouldn’t you feel powerless too? Wouldn’t you want to have some form of respect? Both men and women deserve respect as long as the respect comes from both sides. And respect is NOT something you earn. Respect is NOT a reward. Respect is a right we all deserve.
It is bias, but in this day and age, the feminist movement has really downplayed men, disrespected men, hated on me, pushed away men, and shut them out. IT’s no wonder so many men are angry they have no voice. No it is not all women’s fault. Men can stand up for themselves, but when and where? Why are there so many single dads? Yes there are so many single mothers, but there are also single dads that have been shut off and cut off by women that do not deserve it. …
Acceptance and agreement are not the same, however they can exist together. That is called respect.
Here is a taboo topic, but it’s one that needs pointed out. Because Domestic Abuse consist often of sexual acts let’s get this straight, KINKS are absolutely NOT to be used as acts of control, violence, harm or shame.
Sure, there is what seems to be a fine line between what is considered a KINK and an act of violence. But in reality, that is not true. Kinks are always acts of respect and mutually played out. When it comes to Kinks, everyone involved knows what is going on, how to feel safe, and to never push limits in order to harm someone. Even when it comes to BDSM, those acts are still done in respect and within limits, boundaries and safety.
CAUTION:
Domestic Violence doesn’t come just from men. It’s a form of conditioning someone. IT can be from any individual, especially those that claim “they love you”. Domestic Abuse comes in the form of physical, mental, sexual, emotional, spiritual, legal, body language, verbal and even silence.
No matter whether you are male or female you have a choice! You can say NO! You have that right. And you do not have to feel guilty for giving yourself the respect you deserve when it comes to abuse.
Love is NEVER a transaction. Love is NOT always something you do. Love is honestly NOT enough to keep a relationship together.
There are so many times we feel stuck, don’t know what decision to make, because we don’t want to hurt someone we love, even if they have hurt us, even if they say they love us. How do you get out of a bad situation like that? You have to get out of your comfort zone, make the hardest decisions you’ll ever make, live in a world of the unknown and always be unsure of what is going to happen next…but always be ready to know yourself, what this means is to know and have enough faith in yourself to stand in front of those difficult mixed feelings, be able to claim the truth, stand for what is right and to see through that tactics used to try to hurt you further. Despite what your emotions may feel. It a cold way to be but it will keep you safe.
